Before you can be compatible with someone else, you must first be compatible with yourself. You must exist within yourself without being in conflict with yourself. You must know inner peace, you must know how to make yourself happy. Entertain yourself. Fix yourself. Give your life a purpose. Because if not, you will always look to someone else to do those things. And they won’t. Because it’s not their job. And then you will only focus on the failed expectations you placed on them. And that’s a problem. Don’t rely on others for what you should do for yourself. __a.c.